Weddings can be EX-PEN-SIVE. Although the more extravagant ones are certainly beautiful to witness, we’re not a huge advocate of trying to top the prettiest and most expensive wedding you’ve ever seen—only to be in months (if not years) worth of debt following your wedding day.
Being realistic about the amount of money you have to work with is wise. So is speaking with a wedding planner who may be able to cut you a deal on some things thanks to their relationships with vendors.
But if money is SUPER TIGHT and you know that you and yours really don’t have more than $5,000 to work with, no worries. Here are some things that you can do to keep your wedding day (and reception) under budget.
Limited Your Guest List
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The more people that you invite, the bigger venue you’ll need and the more food you’ll have to get in order to feed them. Only you know how many individuals definitely need to be there to witness your special day. All we’re saying is that one of the quickest ways to reduce your budget is to cut down your guest list.
Get Married During The Week
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It’s probably not a shocker that venues are going to charge the most for weekend events. If you want to save as much as 30-50 percent, consider getting married on any days other than Saturday or Sunday (yep, sometimes even Fridays will work!).
Hire Some College Musicians
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Have you always fantasized about having live music at your wedding? One way you can make that happen without spending a mint is by contacting a local college (or even high school) and ask how much they charge. Whatever it is, it’s going to be much cheaper than adult musicians. Plus, they will probably know some songs that the grown folks don’t; ones that will be sure to liven up the joint!
Play Around On Etsy
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If personalized items are what you’re after, you can never go wrong with Etsy. Plus, being that you’re working with individual vendors, sometimes they will offer you an unexpected discount or cut you a deal of some sort. (It never hurts to ask!)
Get Creative With Paper Flowers
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We REALLY want you to carry a bouquet of fresh flowers. But for your bridesmaids, the throwaway bouquet and even some of the centerpieces for your reception tables, paper flowers can be quite beautiful and really unique. And, you can get some of your bridal party and family members to help you make them, free of charge! (Click here for a little inspiration!)
“Barter” Talents For Gifts
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Rather than going for an all-out gift registry, ask some of the people coming to your wedding if they’d be willing to offer up some of their skills rather than giving you a pair of towels. It’s a cool way to get your programs done (if you know a calligrapher or printer), your boutonnieres for the groomsmen taken care of (if you know someone who is super handy with arts and crafts) and a myriad of other random thing that cost but usually someone you know can do.
Host A Free Reception At A Park
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Here’s a cool idea. If you don’t mind your reception being casual, why not hold it at a local park? Not the one that is super-crowded, but the one that a lot of people don’t frequent or the one where individuals hike more than anything else. You can do everything picnic-style with no stress, drama or a leftover bill.
Make The Most Of Your MP3 Player
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While there’s nothing quite like the stylings of a DJ, if money is super-tight, opt for a venue that has its own sound system and then either connect your MP3 player to it or program your laptop with all of your favorite music.
Nix The Wedding Cake
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Remember the calling in favors suggestion that we made? Ask someone to make a smaller wedding cake for you and your sweetheart. For everyone else, get a tier-holder so that you can “layer” cupcakes or donuts instead. If you’re worried that it will look cheap, don’t. Going with a dessert other than a traditional wedding cake is one of the biggest trends going right now.
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Open bars are cool. But you can still have a really fabulous wedding without one. Pull on everyone’s heart strings by creating a special signature drink that is named after the two of you, includes a significant date that you share or even a phrase from a favorite movie or song. People will enjoy the idea so much that they won’t even think about where the beer is! A delicious and memorable way to keep your wedding under the $5,000 cap, wouldn’t you say?